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Exercise and Diet
Men usually develop fat around the stomach, when you want
it around bust and especially hips. You can't easily add to the right
places, but you can certainly make a difference to that tummy. Ten sit-ups regularly
every morning will trim your waist, and you can do it easily at home in 5
minutes, without joining the Gym. Lie on your back on the floor with your
feet braced against the wall, legs straight; reach up and try and touch your
toes. Set yourself a target, you will do ten every day!
Believe it or not, you do feel better for doing it. Don't follow faddy diets but
eat 25% less by simply using a smaller plate. Cut down on the beer too,
to leave room for girly drinks when dressed!
Tighten a slack jawline by tipping the head back, stretch the lower jaw and blow twenty kisses all over the ceiling. If you do work out, try cardiovascular excercises like cycling for health, shape and stress relief; develop pectoral muscles if you wish, but definitely no bodybuilding or weights! In fact why not try a back or Indian Head Massage, or Acupressure (not Acupuncture)? All you have to do is sit there while you get yourself fondled - I'm sure you'd rather radiate what a happy, natural girl you are, rather than getting too stressed to even want to dress in your lovely womens' clothes.
Get enough sleep,and make time to go for more walks and do things you enjoy, to protect against illness and feel more positive. I find St. John's Wort tablets daily work well as a mild natural anti-depressant.
OK,
you ignored my excercise advice, or need more help! Young women - and TVs - want to show off their curves and emphasise them, whilst older ladies -
and TVs - like to hide certain curves because they are all in the wrong places! Well TVs particularly need to compress or hide the waist.
Adding, without subtracting curves, makes you look fat. Slim first the easy way with a waist corset or cinch; and buy skirts to fit the reduced waist size. If not, even with hip padding, skirts and dresses will still look loose and unattractive around your hips.
Avoid ageing full corsets or bodyshapers that compress the hips, or bulky suspender styles which you know no woman has worn for many years. Your corset should be chosen for smoothness under clothes, and be 4"-5" smaller than your male waist size. Sexiness does not count in this case; effectiveness and comfort does.
Old socks or cotton wool simply won't do! Most women want bigger breasts, hence the wonderful sounding all-in-one gel-filled bras you can still buy. They aren't really the answer. The popular underwired bras are often uncomfortable, and liable to ride up with wear, especially if your bust isn't actually part of you! The cups often look overflowing, badly-fitting and unrealistic even on most women - so a poor choice.
There used to be inflatable bras, but the lack of weight looked unrealistic. "Add-A-Size" bras
are not suitable because they are designed for a very tiny rib cage, such
as on a 12 year old girl. Years ago "Victoria's Secret" or "Atlantis Panache" were examples of a
silicone and water bra respectively. They could take you from an A to a C cup, and felt quite real. Believe it or not, Wallpaper paste inside HEAVY DUTY balloons
used to be a very cheap way to get a lovely bounce and feel. Every few wears they needed replacing to avoid disaster, never mind brooch pins! They were OK for beginners on
a very tight budget, and can easily be replaced. They were however,
hardly what a real woman would wear!
The vast majority of you will not have breast implant surgery, so I won't go into the types of implant. If you are considering the major risk and trouble, do be aware that they don't last for ever, and need to go under the muscle for 100% realism. Some models go for the cheapo just-under the skin two half-tennis balls look, often abroad; but that is likely to prove a very costly mistake.
Added Assets
Silicone "outplants" that you can put in your bra, have become easily and cheaply available, making
expensive surgery pointless. The important thing is to go for softness - beware of hard non-medical silicone 'chicken fillets'! You may be able to get away with just these
- or else you can go for full breast forms, as worn by women after mastectomy (breast surgery for cancer). Unless you have a really flat chest,
avoid the full 'Teardrop' shape, which simulates removed muscle (which is not you). That is designed for women after a radical mastectomy.
Instead choose a 'Triangle' shape, as concave-backed as possible, to allow air circulation, especially if you have some bust tissue. Wear with an unpadded bra.
Padded bras can look as good as unpadded, under semi-sheer tops. The soft "Fiberfil" is usually disguised by a flowery or lacy pattern, preferably over a skintone layer. These are designed to show the flowers looking as if they are directly on your real bust. The cups may be sewn in two or three sections, the latter sometimes simulating pert nipples to disguise the clever enlargement, as well as suggesting youth and sex. But remember, lack of weight looks false. Ideally, you are looking for maximum joggle as you walk.
All about Bra Styles
Beware of strange bra colours that are hard to match, and half or threequarter cup styles, which are glamorous only if you have a real cleavage on show, and do not properly support a breast form. You may have to use them when you need a strapless or multiway style for a low-cut top or dress. In that case, still aim to get a bra with as much coverage as you can, perhaps with transparent detachable straps.
I recommend you wear a Diva Cleavage Enhancer to pull what you have together, available to buy online here. You can enhance your cleavage even further by using porous medical tape. Apply in a diagonal slight vee shape from below your arms immediately under your nipple to below the centre of your bust; it will then be too low to show. Never use "Duck" or "Sello" tape, as perspiration builds up underneath and cannot escape. You will then scar your skin getting it off. Like any woman who wants a dramatic effect, I sometimes use double-sided Girlie Tape (holds clothes at the right position too). For maximum effect add a little highlighter to the "half-moons" on show, and a little beige upside-down triangle of shadow in your new cleavage, fading towards the edges.
All the above are designed to jack up and show off what you have. Unfortunately, only the Diva works well to emphasise your cleavage - it is not itself a bra.
If you have no bust at all, you must have full silicone breasts
to get the best look, weight and feel, and these must be worn in a full cup seamfree or moulded unpadded bra.
I like micofibre unpadded bras, which are so comfortable, and subtly show my nipples. I much prefer white or skintone like most women, as black can look tarty through any clothes that aren't also black.
Never be tempted to go for 'balcony' bras that are to jack up real busts, but do not cover your breast forms. Go for full-coverage. "T-shirt" bras may or may not be padded, but the cups are unpatterned,
in a soft but pre-formed or moulded ideal-breasts shape. Your breasts can look very round and realistic, especiallyif you have the weight inside and bra strap flexibility to give them bounce (test it as you go downstairs).
This type is best for making them look extremely smooth and temptingly touchable, especially under clingy tops.
Breasts are a big purchase, but well worth it. Get them from a mastectomy specialist or the many TV suppliers, and make sure your bras are the same correct (large) size. Research has shown 56% of women are unhappy with their body shape, and 70% wear the wrong bra size for best comfort and appearance. You needn't have this problem! The "teardrop" shape may be suitable if you are very thin; but go for the heart or triangle shape if you already have a bit of a bust.
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